Expectations on dating
If a rebound were to occur, it will happen on average about six weeks after a break up.
Someone who is "on the rebound," or recently out of a serious dating relationship, is popularly believed to be psychologically incapable of making reasonable decisions regarding suitable partners due to emotional neediness, lingering feelings towards the old partner, or unresolved problems from the previous relationship.
The problem is simple: like any other genre of penises, there exists a spectrum, a cornucopia of black phalluses in a variety of shapes, sizes, color and with varying abilities.
It is a disservice to black men, and frankly the world, to present them as sort of a monolith and ends up leaving people like Becky confused about why Lawrence has Lawrence’s dick and not La Marcus’s.
His latest escapade was on Sunday, when he fell into a threesome after meeting some women while grocery shopping. The pair of women pay for his groceries, ask each other if he reminds them of “Craig,” then invites him back to their house. Lawrence just lays there for a second, seemingly stunned at what had happened, likely finally feeling the weight of what was expected of him since he wielded a black dick.
“Your black cock feels so good in my white pussy,” she yells. In my experience as a black dude who has been known to sleep with people who are not black, what happens next is also fairly common. “We’ve been with a bunch of other black guys who could cum and keep going,” the friend responds.
Lawrence, the ex boyfriend of the lead character in HBO’s comedy-drama Insecure, gets around. He started season two of the show fresh out of a long term relationship with Issa, his ex that cheated on him. “Ok, my turn,” the face rider says after her friend orgasms, gently pushing her friend out of the way and mounting Lawrence. Shortly after she adds to it, “You know who really could fuck?
So now he’s making up for lost time, living the bachelor life. La Marcus.” At this point, the sex is decidedly over, both girls getting up to discuss whether or not they should have pad thai.
They have other people, such as friends and close family, to help them.
Rebound relationships are believed to be short-lived due to one partner's emotional instability and desire to distract themselves from a painful break up.
Those emerging from serious relationships are often advised to avoid serious dating until their tumultuous emotions have calmed. When the break up occurs, men tend to find a distraction to break away from the emotional stress.
Comments like Conor Mc Gregor claiming he’s black below the waist, or saying someone is “hung like a black guy” or errant chatter that uses race as an explination for anything sex related can use some interrogating.
Thinking before mentioning casually that someone “looks like they have a big dick,” having realized nothing to base that assumption on anything except that they are skinny and black (yeah, true personal story multiple times over) are all steps in the process.